Miyaad u maleyneysaa in rabshad galmo dhalinyaro ah aysan ku dhici karin wiilkaaga ama gabadhaada? Miyaad u maleyneysaa inay aad u yar tahay in ay dhacdo, ama in aysan dhici doonin maxaa yeelay waa wiil? Tirakoobka qaranka ee Xarumaha Xakamaynta Cudurrada iyo Ka Hortagga Cudurrada galmada ee Maraykanka ayaa sheega sheeko kaladuwan.
Sidee Badanaa Miisaaniyad La'aanta?
Tirakoobka hadda jira ee ku saabsan rabshadaha dhalinyarada ah waxay u sheegaan sheeko cabsi leh:
- Mid ka mid ah 10kii gabdhood ee dhallinyarada ah iyo mid ka mid ah 11ka wiil ee wiilasha ah ayaa qirtay inay kufsadeen rabshado jir ahaaneed oo ku dhacay xiriirka shukaansiga sannadkii hore. Mid ka mid ah saddexda dhalinyaro ayaa sheegaya in ay yaqaanaan qof jir dil u geystey ama ku dhaawacmay lamaane shukaansi ah.
- Mid ka mid ah shantii asbuuc ee da'doodu tahay 13 iyo 14 kuwaas oo xiriirka la lahaa ayaa sheegaya in ay ogaadaan qofkii kufsaday by saaxiib ah ama saaxiib ah.
- Mid ka mid ah shantii dhalinyaro ah ayaa qirtay in dareen ahaan loo xumeeyay sanadki hore.
- Dadka da'doodu u dhaxayso 11 ilaa 14 sano ee xiriirka la leh, 62% waxay yaqaanaan asxaabtii aflagaadeeyay by saaxiib ah ama saaxiibtiis.
- Qiyaastii mid ka mid ah shantii gabdhood ee dhallinyarada ah ayaa jir ahaan ama galmo ahaan xadgudub ku sameeyay lammaanahooda.
- 70% gabdhaha da 'yarta ah ee la soo weeraray galmada ayaa ogaa weerarkooda. Weerarku wuxuu ahaa saaxiib, saaxiib ama saaxiibtinimo.
- In kabadan nus ka mid ah gabdhaha la daraaseeyay ayaa ku wargeliyay gardarrada labada dhinac ee xiriirkooda - taas oo micnaheedu yahay in labadeeda iyo rafiiqkeeduba ay ahaayeen kuwo isdifaacay.
Ka Saarida Rabshadda Jirdilka iyo Xad-gudubka
Marka lagu daro xoog-muquuniska jireed, dhowr iyo toban jir dhalinyaro ah ayaa ku jira xakamaynta ama cilaaqaadka shucuur ahaan xadgudubka ah. Caleemaha iyo jarista ayaa ah hal calaamad si ay u eegaan, laakiin sidoo kale waa muhiim in waalidiintu ay ogaadaan calaamadaha walwalka ama niyad-jabka.
Dhalinyaro kufsi iyo rabshad ayaa ku dhacaya meel kasta si ay u noqoto tirada bilowga ah ee dhalinyarada.
Waa muhiim in waalidiintu ogaadaan tirakoobka, calaamadaha ah in lammaanahaagu uu yahay xad-gudbaha , waxa isbedelka xadgudubka ee xiriirka uu u eg yahay, iyo waxa la raadinayo haddii aad u maleyneyso in dhallintaada lagu xadgudbay. Waalidiinta waxbartay waxay gacan ka geysan karaan joojinta cudurrada faafa ee xiriirka dhalinyarada.
Ilaha:
Dooro Xushmad: Xadgudub Xeeladayn Xogta Isticmaalka Xarumaha Xakameynta Cudurrada. http://chooserespect.engagethecrowd.com/scripts/teens/statistics.asp
Rabshad Qoys ah Xarunta Awoodgelinta Dhibaatada Dhallinyarada Qaranka. http://www.safeyouth.org/scripts/faq/dateviolfacts.asp#9
Rabshadda Ragga ee Dhallinta: Fudud oo Fiiriya Xiriirka Quruxda leh ee Jinsiyada. Wasaaradda Caddaaladda ee Mareykanka, Xafiiska Cadaaladda. https://www.nij.gov/journals/261/pages/teen-dating-violence.aspx
Daraasaadka Tweed ee Xiriirka. Qaranka Qaranka ee Xadgudubka Raadinta Shakhsiyeed. http://www.loveisrespect.org/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/tru-tween-teen-study-feb-081.pdf